IT'S COMMON SENSE

Most people fail to practice common senses in their daily life matters. For example, in a meeting, it is not appropriate to talk to someone with a strong voice while at the same time someone else is talking to give his opinion. It shows that you do not have manners in a meeting. If you want to give your opinion, speak clearly to all the meeting's members. Do not talk so loud in the offensive.

I was involved several times in meetings that have members talk to each other with their loud voice affecting the meeting. I hate such members like that. Sometimes also occur in meetings which involve men and women, men only discuss certain issues between them without involving women. I think it is better if they just discuss among themselves if they do not want to involve women members. And one that I mostly do not like is when an issue arises that is not discussed but "talk back later". What purpose the meeting was made if you want to talk later back?

Waw, this entry seems to express dissatisfaction. That's what happen when we save all the dissatisfaction in the hearts by ourselves. It is better if we speak it up so it does not become the poison that will damage the heart.

Moral : Learn manners and learn the ethics how to behave in a meeting. Furthermore as a Muslims we are suppose to act like what the Prophet has taught us and as a Malay people, we have manners and courtesy. And do not feel resentful or unhappy for a long time. Let it out at the right place, time and to the right person.  If all the negatives things are just kept in your heart, finally the volcano will explode. 




::translated with the help from Google, thanks to technology::

                                                                  gambar sekadar hiasan
                                                           Ustaz Azhari (warden kedua DMAK)